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Digital Detox II


Oh, the digital world.

I'm taking another break from it. Only for a few days. (After that I need to start creating lessons.)

I want to focus on the outside world, rather than reading about it online.
I want to see spectacular sights - live.
I want to take a break from my Facebook Friends because, let's face it: They aren't real friends.

I don't want to depend on my Macbook as my main source of time wasting anymore. I don't want to stalk. I don't want to be let down.

I want to read books, take pictures and cook. I want my Macbook to stay off for more than 12 hours for once. It deserves a break.

I deserve a break from all this nonsense.

Relevant and coincidentally just found this while writing this post:

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Mortician Movies

I'm not sure why, but the last two movies I've watched are about morticians. So let's talk about them! The Flowers of War (2011) and Departures (2008)

The first movie, starring Christian Bale, sets during the Nanking Massacre. I love historical fictions, and if you haven't watch the other gazillion Nanking massacre movies, I recommend you give this a try. It's not the best (lame quotes like "are you going to fall in love with me" and "I already have" ruin it for me) - but I cried nevertheless.


The second, is a movie that Ally might have recommended on her blog or Facbook. It's glorifies the mortician's responsibility; the gatekeeper between the living and the dead. I wasn't sure how they were going to do it, but it worked. Perhaps it was because the Japanese preparation was elaborately beautiful - full of gentleness, respect, great precision and a whole lot of grace. And even with all this dead people talk, humour managed to decorate the movie in an un-vulgar way. Props to that. 
   

 Okay, back to work!
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are you happy?


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on the latest same-sex marriage/divorce, er, thing.

Yay, my Facebook friends are now into politics! The latest scandal, invalidating thousands of same-sex marriages, has brought out a beautiful and healthy debate. I'm sure you've read about it too. Some of my FB friends are mad that the Conservative governments are in a bad light. Although I'm not sure - not many articles do put them in a bad light.

 Although I do think the final decision was a bit weak (more about that later), I don't think the Conservative government should be blamed for a judge's - technically an objective and independent body - decision. So get over it.

Why do I think the final decision is bad? Because non-residents cannot officially marry in Canada if their residency doesn't recognize their marriage. This makes it, as one commenter said, really, really ugly. That means the following marriages are also invalid:
  • Egyptians and Israeli Jews.
  • Muslim Malaysians and someone from another religion. 
  • Saudi women and an non-Arab men. 
  • Japanese women who had a divorce less than 6 months ago. 
  • Jewish Israelis married by a non-Orthodox rabbi.
Have these marriages been made invalid? They should, if they want the law to be consistent. But they shouldn't because it kind of conflicts with the Charter. Shoulda, woulda, coulda. These technically invalid, marriages are (to my knowledge) left alone.

So the question is: What made this judge get picky about this one particular case (that just happened to include same-sex marriage)?

Actually, the most important question is: Why did Canadian officials let non-resident same-sex get married in the first place?